stammering

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85. When you are in a queue / to buy ticket or in the enquiry / counter take your own time to speak. Never be in a hurry. / Neither does the person at the counter / force you to speak very fast / nor the person behind you. / It is your feeling that / you have to speak very fast. /
86. Donot confine yourself / to self imposed boundaries. /
87. You need to develop qualities and / abilities like initiative, self-confidence, / courage, motivation, maturity, / crisis management and vision. /
88. In the ultimate analysis a large part / of the responsibility lies on you / to make the best out of everything. /
89. Integrity of discipline coupled with a / genuine interest in your work will go a / long way in the achievement of success. /
90. Analyze all situations calmly but quickly. /
91. Try to develop maturity. / Maturity is the ability to remain calm / under stress and clearly think and analyze / a problem in the total / perspective even in a crisis. /

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76. Always have trust on all the techniques / mentioned in this blog / since thousands of people have / entered into a new bright / stammering-free life after following our techniques. /
77. Even if you are fluent, / never try to increase your speed. /
78. Cash in the compliments from your / family members, friends, relatives and other / people that “Now you are speaking better.” /
79. Always remember that your moto is / “Dedication, devotion and determination” / and its proper application. /
80. Write down the different situations / when you speak well and / read it from time to time. /
81. Work hard diligently and / sincerely on self improvement. /
82. Your abilities will grow / and sharpen with time. /
83. Do more slow reading practice / since it is a complete / and all round practice. /
84. After doing regular practice you feel / confident and on the other hand / if you miss practice/ you may lack confidence. /

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67. Try and speak correctly all the time. / It is better to talk less / but correctly rather than / talk more and stammer repeatedly. /
68. Always say your name / whenever you introduce yourself / even if the others know you. /
69. Your goal is not only to sustain / the improvement but to accelerate it further. /
70. Come to terms with your / new non stammering personality. /
71. Never stiffen your body or hold hands / tightly even while you are not speaking. /
72. Be satisfied with whatever you have. /Always keep in mind / that you are landed up / much better than the average people. /
73. Hum a song or tune in / your mind and try to relax. /
74. Practice sincerely, consistently and patiently. / You are sure to get / over a life time hurdle. /
75. Never settle for less than the best. /

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59. Try to remove your inferiority complex. / This can be done by / socializing with people confidently. /
60. Sort out all the shortcomings / and try to get over it. /
61. Remember that if you speak well, / your confidence will increase and / on the contrary your confidence is / shattered due to stammering. /
62. Speak out as much as / possible with other people. /
63. Everything comes if a man / is sincere and waits patiently. /
64. While discussions are on never be / agitated if somebody contradicts you. / Take it easily, sportingly and / take it for granted that / opinion always differ. /
65. There is a tendency among the / young generation to speak very fast. / You should be alert enough to control / speed while speaking to them. /
66. Give instructions to your family members / and friends to remind you / in case your speed increases. /

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51. If you are determined that / I will have to speak fluently / then there is no power / on the earth that can / stop you from speaking normally. /
52. Start everyday with a good / mood and fresh mind. / If you are cheerful / all the time the problem of speech / will be much less. /
53. Most of the time if not / always speak in the / prescribed style of speaking. /
54. Keep in mind that your style / of speaking is excellent. / A person who speaks very fast / does not attract the listener at all. /
55. Some people speak very fast. / Never try to compete as regards speed. /
56. While assessing your improvement / see that it is firm and steady. /
57. In a particular period of time / if you are in a bad patch, / practice very hard and overcome it. /
58. You must develop a strong will power / firm determination and sizeable quantity / of zeal that you have / to overcome your problem. /

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41. Never expect that self confidence / will come overnight. / Whenever you speak better think about it. / It will increase your / self confidence continuously. /
42. Steady and permanent improvement / is all the more necessary / not the overnight improvement. /
43. Expose yourself fully instead of / trying to hide your problem. /
44. Try to listen to your / voice all the time. /
45. Think positively, act positively, / result is good speaking. /
46. Consider yourself as a / fluent and confident speaker. /
47. Erase out all debris from your mind. /
48. Donot be depressed at little stammering. /
49. Avoid controversial exciting discussions with / friends, family members and relatives / for some months until you attain / complete control over your speech. /
50. Always be confident, positive and optimistic. /

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33. While doing slow reading / sometimes follow the same style / as that of a TV newsreader. /
34. Donot cross your legs while speaking. /
35. Try to be cool and / calm all the time. /
36. Be confident and cheerful. / Never let it loose / at any point of time. /
37. Never think that a person / is very much superior to you. /
38. Try to forget if you / falter very badly sometimes. / To think continuously of your problem / does more harm than to stammer itself. /
39. If you speak slowly it is easy / for you to properly co-relate / thinking and speaking very effectively / making fluent speech possible. /
40. Always rely and trust on yourself / that you can speak fluently. /

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24. Remember that restful and unhurried / speech always strike the listener pleasantly. /
25. Donot rush through sentences / at break neck speed. /
26. Read distinctly loudly enough / so that as you read / each word is audible to you. /
27. Pronounce each word with clarity / giving proper accent on every syllable. /
28. Use simple words which you can / easily pronounce and use correctly. / Avoid using difficult words unnecessarily. /
29. Be precise in your answers. / Donot give unnecessary long answers / which may put you off the track. /
30. Speak in a clear voice and / make sure each word is audible. /
31. Always try to speak / in a personalized tone. /
32. Never allow any fear / to come when you are / going to speak to a person. /

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18. Sometimes words connected with / particular letter or letters / give you trouble. / The main reason is the consciousness / with that particular letter. / Never be conscious with that letter. / Use words with those letters more / and more rather than avoiding it. /
19. If you find it difficult / to start with any specific word, / try to start with that word / only instead of avoiding it. /
20. Cultivate the habit of direct speaking. / Avoid communication in a lengthy way / or in a round about manner. /
21. Start talking in a slow relaxed manner. /
22. Never drag any word for too long. /
23. Always try to maintain normal / eye contact with people while talking. / It builds up your self confidence / and enhances the personal impact. /

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13. Always control your excitement / as far as possible. / If you can control your excitement, / half the battle for / fluent speech is won. /
14. When you are on the move, / walking very fast / climbing several flights of stairs / rest for a while / before starting to speak. /
15. If you get stuck / on any particular word, / then stop take fresh breathing / and deliver slowly and softly. /
16. Take care that movement of tongue / lips, jaws are smooth and / vocal cords and other speech muscles / are relaxed while speaking. / Avoid stiffness especially in these organs. /
17. If you feel blocking in the throat /, if the breathing locks and chokes / you exhale some air / to open the lock and start speaking. /

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